The Second Stage

     The Second Stage of a relationship is a grind of two beings that is seen by most people who enter relationships but only a few gather the real meaning of this special time spent with your significant other. Its a pivotal point in a relationship that tests the boundaries of everything in the bind that the two have created. The grip you had on the vision of the person when you first met has changed drastically. It has morphed into something that is living or dying. You both should fuel each other in every way possible, whether it be in a negative or a positive way.  If they aren't then they're simple a rotting corpse that is in your way which is a violently cold way to look at it but it spits the truth in the face of people who need powerful advise.

          Your partner will show you things about yourself that you never knew existed. They will test you and try to break your walls down to find your core to see what its like in there. Will that core be able to handle a long lasting connection with loyalty and grace? Will she turn into a nagging wife that hates everything that you do with your friends and hate all of the TV channels you watch? This is the stage that all of this starts to come to the surface. It will take a lifetime to have any kind of results but you must take the first step.

          The man looks at many women out in the wild showing off their bodies and hanging around men who are free as could be without a care in the world. He's engulfed with envy. He wants what he had when those hard times come with your woman. It seems to clear that a life like that would be much more enjoyable than this hell your experiencing in your relationship. But when all the current emotions are put aside you must ask your self this question. Look at those women and ask yourself, Do those single ladies know how to make me laugh? Do they know all of my favorite foods and knows exactly how to make my day a better day when I'm feeling down? Will that girl flashing her breasts be honored to meet your parents that you've been talking about since the first time you met? Will she drive an hour out of her way to come pick you up when you've embarrassed yourself at work by getting fired and no one seems to think you amount to anything? Will that girl flashing her breasts wake you up in the middle of the night because you've seem to drift away in bed and wants your warmth? No. She just knows that your a man who wants to have fun and call it a night, no wake up call, just on to the next party.

          But your love, your queen... she knows you have a heart and a future that springs loudly with love and care. The thought of a future family scares the man to no edge but inside he's calm and collective with the thought of his love baring his child. He envisions it in her, he knows there's more to come in this life which will be conquered with her by his side. She feels safe in his arms. He feels loved and cared for.  This life brings so many questions with only a limited amount of answers but one answer is for certain. The most beautiful part and most crucial of this engagement of two souls relies on the simple act of acknowledging your love for one another.